Why does it happen that everytime I laugh alot, I end up crying a few days later, as if to make up for it? Does everything in life have to be in a balance all the time!
Why are some people so artificial, so selfish and so insensitive? People whom you call 'friends'! At times I feel like I'm having a great time and everything is going well, and then suddenly *boom* everything just crashes and I feel like I'm surrounded by people who care a damn about me.And then I wonder, why the hell do i give so much importance to people in the first place...
Life Sucks! :-(
24 comments:
sadly, dats how things are...i also have felt the same lot of times...only thing to do is lower ur expectations from others...
Neha, I am very regular to your blogs. I thought u r very practical in life. But alas! it is not.
Hey,that's the human tendency all over the world. Keep writing ur stuffs with positive energy. Also vsit mne and give some comments.
Time and again, life does come a full circle. Cheer up, it's all good. >:D<
I know that feeling. I've had a falling out with a few friends myself...People suck in general. They do.
Neha huggggggz! It happens...all the time. Happiness is always followed by it's shadow Sadness...nothing lasts forever...life is a continuous journey of recurring happiness n sadness...
with friends too, nothing is guaranteed...I have learnt that in many hard ways. Now I have started to care less for ppl...I used to go out of my way to express my love n care to some ppl but all I have received in return was nothing, not even love n care. So Now I dun give much and I dun expect much from others...cos it leads to disappointment.
tc!
Keshi.
U No.. it is not unpleasant surprise to see a low mood post..
I have quite a few...
Though it is a very interesting challenge to Discover LIFE/ ourselves and our surrounds....
It does get to us at times...
but frankly i know its always good to know than someone who is remote and may not even know you.. confirms to you the fact that life is not all that bad.. yeah it has phases.. but believ me there are more good ppl and more good things than not..
its just that the not so good ones .. pinch a little extra..
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( hey cant reach ur blog!!)
Cheer Up madame :) . This is the nature of life one momnet its all rosy and the very next it sucks big time. The very unpredicatble nature of life makes it worth living trust me you wouldn enjoy life if all were rosy all the time, the anticipation of what might happen next and the enigmatic nature of life makes it more exciting.
To a certain extent it depends on us as how Life looks like, its all in our mind, the very people who were your best buddies today might appear to be selfish the very next day, one possibility which is highly unlikely is that they have changed overnight or the other possibility which is highly likely is that your perception of them might have changed.
Take care madame everything is gonna be fine very soon, who knows tommorrow you might come out with a rosy post as to how you had a great time with those very friends u were talking abt. :)
Hey sweetheart!,
Thats life for u!:-)
Remember the rule we learnt in physics in school-everything that goes up ALWAYS comes down!
So is the case with life--but hey remember the rule also means that everything that goes down also goes back up!
So keep smiling and the good times are gonna come back soon!
A bear hug till then to keep u squeezed with happiness!
Yes, honey, such, unfortunately, is life!
Neha..what happened?? I mean you're always so cheerful and you got a damn positive attitude..however I feel such things are bound to happen. They happen as a result of our own faults. I've experienced such stuff too..like for eg I've given too much importance to some people who really didn't deserve it, and I've paid heavily. There's no point in sulking over the issue. I admit its tough to recover from such things, but recover we have to. We should learn from our mistakes and become wiser people!! That's why life's all about.I'm sure things will get okay soon..You keep smiling!!
hey...cheer up...things will look up sooner or later...
"Why are some people so artificial, so selfish and so insensitive? People whom you call 'friends'! At times I feel like I'm having a great time and everything is going well, and then suddenly *boom* everything just crashes and I feel like I'm surrounded by people who care a damn about me.And then I wonder, why the hell do i give so much importance to people in the first place..."
This is freaky!! If I had to write I would have chosen the same words, not one word different,you have just echoed sentiments, I cannot tell u y it happens as it has eluded me too, but if u find out then do tell me:)
anyway, take care and don't take things to heart, this phase will pass too and you will meet some great friends again...till then be happy:)
Why see things this way?
See the other way. After every sad minute you will gain a glorious happy moment to cherish.
Yes.I get the point what u r trying to say.I think it is the bad times which show u ur true friends.
Congrats, again for the result though
You guys have been so sweet to me :) thanku!
@ss, yep expectations! if only tht cud be somehow grilled into my head!
@sting, well practical.. i'd say i'm more emotional than practical..accepted :)
don't worry i'm back with positive stuff :)
@Seashells, yep.. up and down.. and back up again.. so its all in the game.. teh game called life!
thanks..
@sinusoidally, well i wud've made the same stmt yesterday.. but i feel good today so i'll refrain ;) not all people suck! :)
@Keshi, thankuuuuuu :) yeah.. nothing lasts forever, even i go thru these phases.. btu they don't last forever.. thank gd fr tht!
I guess all of us have had such experiances with people at some point or the other.. i need to take it as a part of life and learn from it..
@abhishek, its not unpleasant surprise.. hmm does tht mean its not a surprise or its not unpleasant? :)
j/k..
ur right.. sometimes i feel like talking to someone who barely knows me and is not gonna judge me.. it's such a relief..
can't reach my blog?? why's tht?
@Manoj, but why? why is life unfair? can u answer tht?
done!! left all of it behind :)
@catch22, yeah i noe.. we use tht to tell ourselves it's ok to hv bad times, cause they won't last. ntn lasts! well true in a way.. if things were good all the time, we wudnt appreciate them as much.. but maybe we will appreciate them. life shud give us a chance to try tht too :)
perception.. hmm.. well i probably won't thin of them in the same way a few days later.. they can't change so quick.. it's my view of them.. thts an interesting point..
@Ekta, yeah.. physics was one subject i did not like!! ;)
but i'll remember the rule!!
thanks fr the hug though.. it really helps :)
@Pinki, i feel so nice.. hearing all this :) u guys r just great!
@Nessa, well then i need to accept it :)
@Sudarshan, hey i have my bad days too !! :) u see whatever is positive has to be negative.. caus entnt remains the same..:)
i'v sulked enuf, nt sulking anymore.. can't change people.. so i hv to accept it and move on! i can only change my attitude towards them..
@Monk, done dude :)
@Yashita, eeeeee ur scaring me :D
maybe i'll get to know in a few years.. will def tell ya then ;)
meet some great friends..i hope so too..
@Aizwaikcha, yes yes.. i got to be positive! i will!
@Tarun, true.. and hey thanks again :)
well neha, lifes never fair...its always been thisway...even i used to crib a lot bout it till someone actually asked me a simple question "who said it wud be??"...n i had no answer...well i still crib--thts ot changed /...heehee...but its true tht noone promised us tht life will be fair...juss tht gotta deal wth it..gotta try...:(
awww. kya ho gaya?
life is all 'bout ups n downs dear..so be brave n face it.. n let not others make u cry
STack overflow...
and close..
feel free to be in touch... with smone u just dont dont..
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yea, I kinda freaked out too:))
Wat happened sweey? Hope u r fine by now. was too busy wid other things visited ur blog after a long time today. one meets a lot of selfish and artificial people in life, the sooner their true face i reveald d better it is.Tk it positively tat atleast u noe now that d person u called a frnd isnt one. Tk care
@ all of u, i know guys.. it happens.. but it freaks me out at times.. i keep having these ups and downs.. the lows r real low at times.. :) so it jsut gets to me!
anyways i'm cool fr now! touchwood.. there i go again. another superstition ;)
We need valleys in life to enjoy the peaks... life is what we make of it... ;)
It doesnt suck . It merely gives everyone a chance . And life does balance out , so i live on the philospohy of one day at a time . And this helps m a lot :)
"Change"
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